Rules For Dating Beautiful Women

Why do you think so many women get into relationships with bad guys who treat them terribly? Because these guys trigger an attraction inside these women. It's not logical I know, but it's a fact.

I'm not saying treat women badly to make them feel attraction for you but you don't have to cater to a woman’s every need.

1.  Always be confident in yourself - MAIN RULE!

People who have real confidence in themselves attract people naturally. People can tell when you are confident with yourself and where you are going with your life. If you're not confident in yourself, why are you not? Is it because you think you're overweight or ugly? Are you being too critical of yourself?

All of this can be overcome with confidence. Honestly, beautiful women don't care a lot about these things. Of course, if you are really over weight and you have bad teeth and you dress like a slob, change yourself. It's that simple. If you want to be successful with women, you can't hide behind excuses to fail.

A lot of men who aren't rich and aren't good looking are very successful with women because they act like they are good looking and they are rich; they act in ways that make men and women naturally attracted to them. A happy go lucky guy who smiles a lot will get 10 times the amount of attention as a sad sack sitting in the corner, no matter how hot or rich he is. Be happy with yourself but if there is something holding you back from being a more outgoing person, fix it. If something about you physically makes you feel self conscious you obviously won’t feel confident in your looks, so I got it removed/changed or whatever. You will feel better about YOURSELF and do it for YOURSELF. Do it because you want to be more outgoing and feel better about myself.

2.  Relax - be totally calm and act like you don’t need her

When you first start dating someone, act calm, be cool. Especially on the first date, be cool. Don't be nervous, don't get all excited and act like a goof. Don't act desperate around women, just be yourself and don’t worry about the outcome, dating should be fun!

3.  Be Cocky and Funny - be outgoing and have fun - be charming, a gentleman

Being cocky means not being afraid to joke around a bit with women. Men are so scared to be themselves around women they act all uptight and nervous and are not sure what to say. Talking about sex and other taboo subjects is fine as long as you keep it to a minimum for the first few dates. Teasing a girl lightly is fine, as long as it's funny and a little bit cocky. Be the fun guy to hang around, make dating fun for you and her.

4.  Don't get emotional even if the woman does - women will test you - nothing to be insecure about

This rule IS SO IMPORTANT when you start dating someone more seriously. If a woman says something to you that makes you feel nervous, angry, upset and you feel like you're going to get overly emotional and say something you will regret, FOR THE GOOD OF YOUR SANITY, don't say anything.

It's a lot easier to say nothing than it is to take something stupid back. Think before you speak. Women will always do this. Women will blame you for things that are not your fault, things will happen in their lives that make them emotional, you're job is to stay calm.


5.  Lead in the relationship - Always be a man - say things like "you do what you want to do"

Girls like a guy who will lead in the relationship. I don't mean bossy or domineering, I mean lead. It's a manly thing to do. When a woman asks what you want to do, don't reply "I don’t know, what do you want to do?" Take the bull by the horns and make a decision. I know it's a bit of a pain to be the one who does this all the time but it really works.

Also, when women throw things at you that you're not expecting, never over react. If a girl says she's going out with male friends, or seeing an ex boyfriend, don't flip your lid. This is the quickest way to push her away. Just say things like, "you do what you want to do", "it's your life, I'm not your father, have fun". Saying things like this makes you sound confident in yourself and that you don't really care what she does. Begging her not to go and doing all sorts of crazy things guys do will push her away for good.

Take this advice and act on it and you won’t go wrong.                         Back to Tips...